I have this budget conversation a few times a week when discussing new projects with existing clients or when interviewing prospective clients.
Me: What is your budget for this project?
Gee I don't know, we haven't really thought about it.
At this point I have to wonder if a) I'm dealing with someone for which money is no object, b) they really haven't thought about the budget yet or c) they have a budget figure in mind, but they just won't share it with me under the belief that "the first one to mention price loses." Back to the conversation.
Me: Well, it would be tough to quote this blind. Any ball park you want to give me?
Well, we trust you. You're the expert on these things.
This is tough. You need to know the value expectation to provide a valid scope of work and quote, but you need the client's price neighborhood to understand their value expectation. If you know the client well enough you can get candid and just say "Really, I need to know how much we have to work with or I'm going to give you a number that's way too low or way too high. I might get lucky, but do you really want to roll the dice and try to get lucky with something this important?"
As Michelle Golden (@michellegolden) pointed out to me a client's indication that they don't know what the budget should be is a great opportunity to explain the value you can add. She's absolutely right. The art to pricing is being able to discern when prospects truly don't have a budget expectation from the times when they simply won't share it with you. In the former you can educate. In the latter you may be dealing with gamesmanship or poor negotiating skills.
If you don't know the client very well yet and they just won't share the budget expectation you can choose not to quote or you can quote blind. When you quote blind here are three rules I follow that may help you.
However, seriously consider not quoting blind. Just say "It's our policy not to quote until we are given some budget parameters from the client. Price is too important an issue for us to guess at what you want to pay." This takes guts and I don't do it as often as I should.
Part 2 is for clients. It explains how you hurt yourself when you fail to set budget expectations with your vendors and professional partners.
A special word of thanks to the #geeksunite community for their input and contribution to this post, especially @michellegolden @taxman45 @deductme @DeepSkyAcc @JodyPadarCPA and @CFarmand. You guys are awesome.